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Negotiation. Focus on this thing.

It is a great key to a better life. In business, friends, and family.

Jan Sebastian 🖐👩‍🦰
3 min readNov 18, 2021
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Make your life a dream instead of a nightmare.

Rule#1. Be nice.

Be calm and listen. Choose your battles at all times. When there is a disagreement, and they do happen, look at it as negation practice.

Rise up to the high round.

Do not say things like, “You’re a lying bitch.” “YOU BASTARD.”

I don’t say fuck. There are so many other words to choose from.

Who do you say “FUCK” to? Your partner. Your parents? Your kids? Just stop now. Get real.

Life, in general, can be complicated enough. If things feel like they are getting heated, take a break and regroup.

Words are so very powerful. Both mean words and kind words.

‘It Takes 1,000 Attaboys, 1,000 Attagirls To Erase One Really Big-Time Put-Down From A Parent’ — Dr. Phil

Who do you want to be? Would you want to live with you? Are folks excited about being around you, or are they polite so they won’t irritate you? I wrote a…

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Jan Sebastian 🖐👩‍🦰
Jan Sebastian 🖐👩‍🦰

Written by Jan Sebastian 🖐👩‍🦰

I had a stroke so I can’t walk or talk, but I can write! Just a new chapter in life. I love the journey…..By me a cup of coffee Ko-fi.com/jansebastian5419

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