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My roommate left after 14 years!👬

Jan Sebastian 🖐👩‍🦰
7 min readDec 31, 2023

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We were girlfriend & boyfriend for years! — He is 19 years younger than me! — We are cute though!

Photo by the author — Me and Matt

Before I start, I’m kinda scared. — I am never scared!

Luckily I can take care of myself. I can’t mow the lawn yet or shit like that. I was on a mission to get there for sure.

He was paying half of the bills, so I now have to start being super frugal!

I don’t drive, but I have been shopping online for a couple of years and buying all the food and stuff!

He has schizophrenia. — 5 years ago I had a stroke.

For 8 years we were intimate and then came my stroke. — So we became two disabled people living together.

Matt has been on disability since he was 25.

He’s now 45 and I’m 64. — Cougar? — Maybe. — I was pretty hot back then. I didn’t even know his age. I didn’t care. We just clicked.

He was abused his entire life. — His mom ditched him at 5 years old.

How can you ditch your 5-year-old kid? — He went from family member to family member, then finally his dad’s where he was…

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Jan Sebastian 🖐👩‍🦰
Jan Sebastian 🖐👩‍🦰

Written by Jan Sebastian 🖐👩‍🦰

I had a stroke so I can’t walk or talk, but I can write! Just a new chapter in life. I love the journey…..By me a cup of coffee Ko-fi.com/jansebastian5419

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