Great piece, PJ! Pressure on women to have kids is crazy! I got preg when I was 18. I never dreamed of a wedding, or kids. I was not on birth contol. I had my son, then got on the pill. My mom died when I was 21, so I was concerned for my son if he lost. I went off the pill and son #2, after which I got my tubes tied. The baby factory wa shut down. I commend you for following your heart!